Who We Are
At Intrapsychic, we specialize in treating adult men who are dealing with problematic sexual behavior, including those struggling with repetitive sexual urges, frequent and intense sexual activity, and compulsive patterns that interfere with relationships and daily life. Our approach recognizes that compulsive sexual behavior—sometimes called sex addiction or hypersexuality—is often rooted in deeper emotional and psychological patterns that developed early in life.
Our initial focus is specific and direct: accepting responsibility for the behavior, understanding the distortions in thinking that led to it, recognizing how empathy was suspended in the moment, and developing concrete cognitive and behavioral strategies to interrupt the cycle before it starts.
We work with men from all backgrounds: those referred by the legal system, those sent by concerned partners, and those who have recognized the problem themselves and are ready to change. Regardless of how you arrive, you’ll be treated with dignity and respect as an adult capable of making your own decisions.
Our Attachment-Based Approach
Once we complete the initial accountability work, we move into deeper, attachment-based therapy. This is where real transformation happens. Using principles from attachment theory and questions from the Adult Attachment Inventory, we explore early attachment disruptions that have shaped your adult relationships and decision-making.
These disruptions might include:
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Loss of a parent or caregiver
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Parental mental illness or addiction
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Physical or sexual abuse
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Witnessing violence in the home
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Emotional neglect or inconsistent caregiving
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Other traumatic childhood experiences
Many men discover that their compulsive sexual behavior is an attempt to manage feelings of inadequacy, shame, loneliness, or anxiety that originated decades ago. By understanding these connections, we can address the source of the problem rather than just managing symptoms.
Our Goal: Moving Toward the Ability to Love Generously
Our ultimate goal is not simply to stop problematic behavior—though that is essential—but to help you develop the capacity for genuine intimacy and the ability to love generously. This means:
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Scraping off unnecessary self-blame and shame
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Becoming reflective about your patterns and triggers
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Understanding how past experiences shaped your adult choices
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Recognizing that childhood pain was not your fault
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Developing emotional sensitivity and empathy
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Building the internal strength to live according to your values
If we can untangle the psychological patterns that lead to compulsive, addictive, or illegal sexual behavior, we can help you move toward a life characterized by authentic connection rather than compulsive escape.
The Healing Process
The healing part of our program comes through:
Safe Environment for Difficult Work – You’ll relive and reprocess past experiences in a therapeutic setting where you’re supported, not judged.
Corrective Understanding – Recognizing that early attributions of blame were misplaced. The loss or absence of love was not the fault of the child you were.
Group Support – Our group therapy sessions allow men to support each other, learn from each other’s insights, and realize they’re not alone in their struggles.
Psychological Freedom – Understanding the origins of your behavior creates genuine freedom to choose differently going forward.
Each client at Intrapsychic is treated as an adult capable of making his own decisions and is respected as such. You are supported as you develop the internal strength to honestly account for your behavior and make positive changes to better your life and relationships.
What Makes Intrapsychic Different
25+ Years of Specialized Experience
Dr. Reavis has dedicated his career exclusively to working with men dealing with compulsive sexual behavior. He has completed thousands of psychological evaluations, testified in federal and state courts, and published numerous articles in peer-reviewed journals.
Trusted by Legal and Medical Professionals
Dr. Reavis was the first treatment provider in San Diego selected to treat the highest-risk sexual offenders released to the community. He holds contracts with U.S. Federal Pretrial Services, U.S. Federal Probation, and San Diego County Probation to evaluate and treat men at all levels of risk.
Evidence-Based, Attachment-Focused Methods
Our approach is grounded in attachment theory and supported by clear empirical evidence. We don’t use shame-based methods or generic addiction models. Instead, we help you understand the specific psychological patterns driving your behavior.
Comprehensive Services
We offer individual therapy, group therapy, psychological evaluations, telemedicine options, and specialized treatment for various presentations of compulsive sexual behavior, including sex addiction, porn addiction, and infidelity-related issues.
Treatment Services We Offer
Sex Addiction Treatment
Comprehensive therapy for compulsive sexual behavior using attachment-based methods to address root causes.
Porn Addiction Treatment
Specialized treatment for problematic pornography use that interferes with relationships and daily functioning.
Infidelity Counseling and Treatment
Support for men who have been unfaithful and want to understand why it happened and how to rebuild trust.
Group Treatment
Powerful group therapy sessions where men support each other through the recovery process.
Psychological Evaluations
Comprehensive assessments for legal, clinical, or personal purposes, including risk assessment and treatment planning.
Telemedicine Programs
Secure, confidential online therapy sessions for clients throughout California who cannot attend in person.
What Clients and Professionals Are Saying
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Frequently Asked Questions
Is my information kept confidential? Absolutely. All communications and treatment are completely confidential and HIPAA-compliant. We take your privacy seriously.
Do you accept insurance? We are in-network with several major providers in San Diego, including Tricare, Medicare, Blue Shield of California, Magellan, and Cigna. Please contact us to verify your specific coverage.
What happens during the first appointment? The initial consultation involves discussing your concerns, understanding your history, and developing a preliminary treatment plan. There's no judgment—only professional assessment and support.
Do I have to attend group therapy? While group therapy is a powerful component of our program, we work with you to determine the best treatment approach for your specific situation.
How long does treatment take? Treatment length varies based on individual needs and goals. Some men benefit from short-term focused work, while others engage in longer-term therapy to address deeper issues.
Can I do therapy remotely? Yes, we offer secure telemedicine sessions for clients throughout California.
Take the First Step Today
Reaching out for help with compulsive sexual behavior takes courage, and we respect that decision. Your inquiry is completely confidential and will be handled with care and professionalism.
Call us at (619) 234-7970 to schedule a confidential consultation, or fill out our secure contact form below. Dr. Reavis personally responds to all inquiries within 24 hours.
Recovery is possible. You don't have to face this alone.